Trying to figure out if someone likes us, whether it’s a romantic like or a platonic like, can be difficult. If we can’t read the signs, if their language is new and different to us, if the vibe is constantly shifting… can muddle our radars up. And when that happens it’s hard not to take it personally.

This reading is intended to be a casual probe into your current relationship of choice. It won’t necessarily provide answers, as this is not that kind of a deck; but it might shed some light and offer up some guidance and hope. And who are we to knock that?

The Compassion card reminds us that we are all on a journey and each one is unique. Just because you are in the right place for a relationship, doesn’t mean that other person is. Perhaps they have wounds from a recent entanglement that need more time to heal. Perhaps they have too much going on at work. Perhaps they have health issues or someone close to them does. And perhaps they just don’t feel the same way back. Whatever their situation it is their’s alone and not yours to judge. Or if you do, it’s not going to get you anywhere. This card calls for more understanding and patience in matters of the heart. Give them space. Give them time. Let the Universe decide for a bit.

The Grace card continues on with this theme, asking us, again, to be more understanding in how we look at and respond to others actions. If they perform in a way that is annoying, frustrating or offensive to us, like the dog in the card, we need to look deeper. When a dog soils in the wrong place, there is usually a reason. Before we lash out, before we act from hurt; first we need to be grounded. What would a person who really loves themselves and feels secure in that love of self do? How would they react? In the case of the dog, surely they would calmly but firmly take the situation in hand, either disciplining if called for, or soothing and calming if not. Not everything is about us. Sometimes people do or say upsetting and unkind things because of what is happening in their story. Remembering this and responding like a confident and secure person is the best way towards being met with the love and respect we are after and all deserve… whether from this person or the one we meet next.

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The deck used is the Affirmators! Love and Relationships deck by Suzi Barrett. You can find out more about it here.

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